<\/span>Ready for takeoff? I\u2019m ready!<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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Now, if you followed my advice above then you\u2019ve self-reflected and reached out regarding your fear. If not, please re-read the previous section. I encourage you to take the steps to overcome your fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re ready to stroll into 2020 not fearful of traveling solo, then read below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t carry any extra baggage of worries, anxiety, and fear with you. Dump those emotions and instead plan out your outfits and all of your travel essentials. Redirect your negative thoughts on positive ones. Hype yourself up so you can to enjoy the moment and your upcoming adventure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A mini solo travel checklist:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

• Pack your bags (don\u2019t forget your passport and travel documents)<\/li>
• Head to the airport.<\/li>
• Slide through security and take a seat at your gate. <\/li>
• Breathe when the gate agents start pre-boarding<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

  Meditation is a great way of centering yourself and putting your nerves at ease. Create a playlist of your favorite songs that help you calm down. Or, \u201dNetflix and chill” with yourself, by tapping the download feature on the app and binge-watch those shows that you have been meaning to catch up on. You\u2019re ready for takeoff!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  <\/span>Now that you’ve Landed<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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  The plane begins its descent. It\u2019s all becoming real and it’s only you and the bags you packed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  If you look around, you\u2019ll notice a few other people who are traveling alone too. Maybe this will comfort you to see others traveling solo just like you. When you exit the airport, the warm or cold air hits you as you walk out of the airport and onto your solo adventure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Can you imagine making it this far? Yes, you can do it! <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Upon your arrival to your hotel, ask questions especially if you’re in a foreign country. It is always good to learn a few words or phrases<\/strong> to communicate what you need, want, and desire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  I challenge you to go straight to your hotel room, change into your bathing suit or fresh clothes, and scope out a spot on the beach or stroll the streets to take in the new city. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Personally, this moment is special because I get to look around and appreciate where I am. I remind myself that I\u2019m somewhere different than I ever expected and my heart is filled with gratitude and appreciation. You\u2019d also look inwardly and pat yourself on the back from preserving and overcoming the mental barriers that could\u2019ve stopped you from taking such a trip. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  If your greatest fear now is to meet people, then don\u2019t miss my new post next week. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  <\/span>Your Solo Adventure<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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  Whatever your interests are, it is a good idea to create an itinerary for your trip. Note: For the purpose of this post, I will not discuss how to create your perfect itinerary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  But, basically, plan out your days in advance and loosen the grip on your fears. Whether you\u2019re spontaneous or a planner, your trip should be just fine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  It\u2019s best to consider your safety, and should always be a priority, but don\u2019t get so caught up in the details that you miss out on an adventure. Your adventure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  I\u2019m not saying do something crazy or extreme, but maybe you can try something different like ziplining, skydiving, snorkeling, skiing, snowboarding or trying new foods and new dance moves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Some destinations offer excursions, cooking lessons, and of course tours to popular tourist sceneries. Each of the offers above is usually done in groups so it could be an opportunity to meet new people. If this idea scares, don\u2019t worry about chatting it up with strangers. You can be off in your own world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  <\/span>Solo Travel, Queen<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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  After your first trip, you’ll be itching to find another adventure and less fearful of traveling alone. I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019ll be completely cured of your fear of traveling solo, but you will have experience under your belt. One solo trip becomes two, two becomes three, and three becomes a lifelong adventure of traveling solo.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  You have to break the ice somewhere.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Even if you plan another trip with the same group of friends and they pull the same stunt, it wouldn’t even phase you. In fact, you might prefer going solo once you\u2019ve gotten a taste of traveling alone. Regardless if your friends come through or not, check off the many boxes on your bucket list one trip at a time.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Crown yourself now as a Solo Travel Queen (yess!!). And, an inspirational guide to another Queen who is met with the same situation. A good idea would be to document and share your experiences. Prove why fear will be a thing of the past once you get over the nervousness of your first solo trip. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Regardless if you\u2019re contemplating whether to go solo or not or sitting at the gate solo and you’re double checking if you need to pick up any more necessities make sure you have your crown, Queen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Are you ready to walk in your best life in 2020?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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