This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something we may earn a commission. Thanks.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Have you ever sat on the side of your bed wondering where your life is headed?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Leading up to my birthday, I had been experiencing some weird feelings around my chest area. Googling \u201cheart attack symptoms\u201d late at night was not on my 2020 or on my 2021 to-do list. We didn\u2019t expect a pandemic to be on that list either. But here we are.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n The typical signs and symptoms pop up. \u201cAbnormal Heartbeat, Anxiety, Tightness in Chest.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Some signs applied to me and others did not. <\/p>\n\n\n\n On top of that, my days had been filled with frustration, anger, sadness around blackness in America. It hasn\u2019t been easy coping with death upon death while in an isolated environment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n There would be days I would sit and stare into space, have no interest in entertainment, and disconnect from social media. <\/p>\n\n\n\n After months of remote working, isolation, health-scares, and COVID-19, I finally took a self-love getaway. Yes, even during COVID-19. Travel is Therapeutic. And, I don\u2019t have any shame<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cFuck!\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n This word has so much meaning. It perfectly described my feelings the last five or six months reflecting the disgusting behavior by the U.S. government, police brutality, COVID-19 numbers, insensitive content\/memes I\u2019ve seen while on social media, and the bs happening at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019m a sensitive person, who is affected by negative and sad stories. They tend to stick with me beyond when I read or hear them. Even in my time off social media is affected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The tightness in my chest and the buildup of anxiety has been plotting against me for a while. Instead, I decided to hide in my cave of doubt, frustration, anger, and sadness for months. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I really had no place to go, especially since working from home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Am I grateful that I can safely remain home and work? Hell yeah. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019m also acknowledging the fact that mixing business AND pleasure under my roof hasn\u2019t been golden. And, it sure hasn\u2019t glittered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So, to answer the question, \u201cWhy did I need a getaway?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n A mental break is the simplest answer I can provide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oh, and it was about time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Note: As an Airbnb Associate, I earn if you book through the links below.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n My birthday fell on a Sunday. Like most people this year, I had to reconsider my birthday plans. So, I planned to do nothing. Buuuut I didn\u2019t want to squander such a beautiful day on pitying myself and my mood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Instead, I hopped on the Airbnb <\/a>app and searched for availability around my area. I looked at Asheville, Greenville, Nashville, Charleston, and Augusta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I ultimately didn\u2019t choose where to go. Airbnb<\/a> did. Here\u2019s how. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I knew I wanted to book a pet-friendly place near lots of trees and nature not too far from a major city. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I also didn\u2019t want to drive more than a couple of hours from my apartment, but I also wanted a place from which I could mentally disconnect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After browsing for an hour, I happen upon a quaint home in Augusta, GA. It was the home\u2019s feature that sealed the deal — the bathtub. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Yep. A bathtub. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Once I confirmed my reservation, I took the day to pack, clean, and organize my plans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I was about to go on a self-love getaway. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Do you remember the singer, Tweet? She sang her most famous song, \u201cOops (oh my)\u201d<\/a> with Missy Elliot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you do, then you know exactly what I\u2019m about to talk about. This post will remain PG-13 so don\u2019t worry. Ha!<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you don\u2019t know the song or singer, then take a moment to watch the following video. <\/p>\n\n\n\nWhy did I need it?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Where did I choose to go?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
What did I do?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n